Sacred Union is the ultimate satisfaction
Do you yearn to live in an ecstatic relationship with your Beloved? Do you yearn to co-create deep transparency, ecstatic intimacy, aligned abundance and shared cosmic consciousness expansion? We now have all the tools for living in truly loving relationships.
Mutual commitment to seeing the supreme Self in each other is what creates a Sacred Union. The path to genuine fulfillment involves falling in Love with the Source of Life, and going through the alchemical mystery of merging our polarities and the elements with the greater whole of creation in our temple of the relationship. This process opens higher consciousness in us.
What is your view or reality model - tree or forest?
The traditional Buddhist awareness training is focusing on the deepening first into shamatha - calm abiding in the nature of reality, and secondly into vipassana - special insight of clear perception of the nature of reality. Seeing the perfection without dualistic concepts of self and other, me and you, here and there, mine and yours. This is what Buddha called the right view of the eightfold noble path. The essence of bliss is the right view. Suffering is simply a feedback of wrong views. In simple terms it is either a forest view or an individual tree view. We are the totality of the forest, and as we realize there have never been an individual tree without the forest we can all begin to be cured from our individuality.
Are we both ready for this?
Can we commit to seeing the supreme Self in both of us? This commitment has to be established clearly in the beginning, that the main goal of the relationship is mutual safety, honoring transparent integrity and maturing together into ever greater Awakening. This creates a sacred container and establishes trust in both of you. There is a whole art to creating this.
An ideal relationship is where both of you are looking and aiming in the same direction of the Self and drinking from your own source and sharing that bliss. Instead of the vanity and control drama of looking at each other, and trying to drink from each other and expecting the bliss and support from the other. At worst shaming and blaming each other when they cannot provide our expectations. There are natural cycles of leaning on each other for a while, being held and receiving a loving reorienting into standing up again into our own roots and source. The ideal relationship is founded on this honoring aim of standing strong and nourishing each other as ancient trees in both our own rootedness below and in the sunshine above, which all our leaves are drinking.
The three stages of realization and greater levels of merger and maturity in the Mahamudra tradition are:
1. Karmamudra - sacred union as a couple, 2. Jnanamudra - sacred union with an internal consort, and 3. Mahamudra - sacred union with the totality of all phenomena, where awareness realizes it is non-dual with the objects in awareness.
Empowerments and initiations are critical. This practice becomes a pathway for ultimate self realization, that the bliss of the orgasm is who we actually are, and our experience of the true self is infinitely more electrifyingly blissful than any physical orgasm. The experience is meant to burn away the attachment to duality, to realize we are inseparable from that bliss. It is not coming from the other. It is not given to us by them. We both are it. We merge and re-emerge in it in ecstasy, which is the ultimate realization of Mahamudra, of Sacred Union with all phenomena. Dissolution in the Primordial Wisdom of unconditional infinite Love. It is the perfect bliss of all pervading union.
Just like the French word for orgasm is petite mort - little death, when it is not understood, that your parts, your self grasping, your control vanities and obscurations and confusions of living life as a separate being is what is meant to be burnt away by this union, this process can feel traumatizing and deeply hurtful. As the more mature one already looks at hurt pride, anger, lust, greed, envy and attachment as passing afflictions, while the other might still identify with these afflictions and lashes out unconsciously. You now understand the nature of the challenge and the two different reality models. Expecting someone to be ready for this without appropriate training and actual experience of the view of vipassana and Mahamudra is simply unrealistic and unethical.
Projections - Purifying your perceptions
Our level of inner attunement with our own internal male and female aspects, is what gets projected onto our partner. These projections distort our view of life. When we have cleared the mirror of our heart, we can dissolve our inherited views of female and male, and this will purify our perception of life. We will no longer project the same wound perspectives. This redefines our experience of relationships, as we begin for the first time to see the other in their true essential purity, and the world becomes the land of Love.
This is for committed couples on the path of advanced unity consciousness, who yearn for deeper shared experiences of an actual felt merger, beyond the dualistic concepts of self and other. From here it is a natural heartfelt understanding of each other’s needs, priorities and conditionings, without any words needed. As two have become one. Honoring what sets both of your hearts ablaze will create a radiantly ecstatic life together. It will turn your relationship into a conscious Sacred Union.
Awareness guidance for deep healing
We are complex beings with many many different aspects and layers to our being. It gets even more complex in relationships. With specific meditation practices we begin to realize that our true Self is covered up by clusters of young wounded parts, who are guarded by protectors, and the behavior patterns of these parts form our small identity, our narrative self. Awareness of these parts in ourselves and in our loved one is the BEGINNING of cultivating true love.
Once you are face to face with your own internal wounded parts and protectors and realize how your own parts connect to the wounded parts and protectors of your beloved, EVERYTHING will begin to make sense. You will be able to create a genuinely SAFE & LOVING space for each other.
You will fight less and less with each other, out of fear and disrespect. Instead you can expect to be able to be clear, transparent and honoring what is, by compassionately sharing with radical integrity the TRUTH of what is happening with your parts. This enables the deepest intimacy and compassion for each others’ suffering, and you will no longer blame each other’s parts for being defensive, you will see crystal clearly, what exactly that triggered part requires for safety. You will be able to LOVE all parts of each other together.
When you are internally aware to be Self-led, your heart is naturally open and curious without any agenda or guardedness. Even when only one of you is consciously present, your presence itself provides a sense of safety for all parts of both of you to relax. With practices you can cultivate mutual Self- Leadership, which is a clearly distinguishable somatic sensation of openness, clarity and love. Your open hearts will effortlessly support each other in being at ease, and deepen in Love.
It is an amazingly powerful path for waking up together from our subconscious suffering, in the loving awareness of each other’s tender care. This level of deep work can only be done in relationships, which are equipped with the skills and practices of being truly conscious. This is the bedrock of a safe and fulfilling Love.
Skillful compassion and loving acceptance of each other’s trigger patterns is now made easy
Gene Keys Compatibility training for deeper Love and Intimacy with your Beloved
Seeing the Perfection of your connection
Understanding, acceptance and loving compassion towards the unique motivations, needs, shadows and higher consciousness of both your own and your beloved’s is the bedrock of a loving relationship. Now we can empower you with the deepest wisdom of the many layers of what makes your relationship harmonious. With guidance, you will cultivate deeper presence and tender awareness of each other in all dimensions. This embodiment will enable you to experience ever deeper divine ecstasies together.
When you understand how your unique centers operate, what sensations are amplified by you and your beloved, and how you truly perceive each other subconsciously, it changes everything. With guidance, both of you can WAKE UP TO what is actually happening between you every day on the deepest energetic level.
When this becomes clear, you will be able to bring deeper care, power and skill in co-creating masterfully together. With committing to seeing the highest Self in both the other and yourself, you will be able to raise each other into Superconsciousness, and support each other in coming up for air from the deep unconscious waters of mental conditioning. This is the deepest love possible, which truly enables both of you to support each other with deep devotion & compassion at the Soul level.
Mastering your combined unique conditioning will turn your relationship into a radiant symphony of a Sacred Union with all that is.
If you aspire for liberation and enlightenment, you need to know from what you want to be liberated. This is crucial for any spiritual practice.
Understanding the unconscious defense patterns between you and your beloved changes everything. It is the best therapy and the most powerful relationship guidance.
